Mistresses Misconstrued Mistaken

Back in the olden days, mistresses understood that what they were doing was frowned upon. They knew they were a home wrecker and it was unacceptable in society's eyes. So they kept their affairs and their business on the low. Kids grew up being put on the wrong fathers or not knowing their father at all. Why? Because the mistress knows that Married John is NOT going to leave his wife and that her role in his life is insignificant. So she took it for what it was worth, raised her child and secretly reaped the benefits from him.

But nowadays, the mistresses think they ARE the wife. These guys have girlfriends with wives on the side. They are seen EVERYWHERE with the married man. They plaster pictures everywhere. Hell, they even call the house to make sure the wife knows about them. #Tigerwoods These women are off their rocker. They have lost their minds. Like in the instance of Steve McNair. What gave you the nerve to KILL...not fight....not run over....but KILL SOME ONE else's husband. I was blowed by this for weeks. Just could not believe it. You weren't even the girlfriend. You were timesharing the mistress slot with other chics and you STILL had the nerve to KILL someone else's husband. These women really don't know their role. You are SADLY mistaken.

So I guess I'll help you out because it's not your fault you don't understand. If your man is married, he is NOT your man. He is SOMEONE ELSE'S man....SOMEONE ELSE'S HUSBAND. So don't even waste your time. If you can't call his home phone or get him after a certain time, He is probably married or seriously involved. If he meets you and tells you he's married but separated or on bad terms. #lyingthroughhisteeth Don't fall for the okie doke, buddy is still with her. They are all on bad terms when they see a beautiful woman or someone who strikes their interest.

I understand that most women who deal with married men do so because the married guys cake faster and easier. This is because they know they have to compensate you for the commitment and time they can not provide. At first you'll be okay with the arrangement. But face it, you're human. And eventually you will catch feelings because you're spending time with that person and sharing your body with him. SO save yourself the heartache and the drama and entertain single suitors only. I know the ring and the unavailability makes the package quite appealing, but exercise some self restraint and have some self respect for once. Just do the wife a favor and let her keep her husband and the kids their dad. I'm sure they'd thank you for it. Besides, one day you may be someone's wife. And when the roles are reversed, you're gonna want Ms. Homewrecker to have mercy on you. So do unto to others and make better decisions. Love yourself because no one else has to :) ♥

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