TROY DAVIS and The American Justice System

Troy Davis was the man executed for the 1989 death of Mark MacPhail, a police officer, working as a security guard at Burger King in Savannah, GA. During Troy's 1991 trial, seven witnesses testified they had seen Troy shoot MacPhail, and two others testified that Troy had confessed the murder to them, and six others for the defense, including Troy. The murder weapon was never recovered and there was no DNA evidence or fingerprints, but ballistic evidence presented at trial linked bullets recovered at or near the scene to those at another shooting in which Troy was also charged. He was convicted of murder and various lesser charges, including the earlier shooting, and was sentenced to death in August 1991.

Troy maintained his innocence until his death, September 21, 2011 at 11:08 pm. In the 20 years between his conviction and execution, 7 out the 9 prosecution witnesses changed or recanted their statements. One of those witnesses being rumored to be the actual killer.  Some of the witnesses stated police coercion.  These changes and accusations were never addressed or investigated.

Over the years of Troy Davis's imprisonment, he appealed to no avail.  Finally in 2009, he was granted an evidentiary hearing. On June 2010, Troy's evidentiary hearing was held and he was required to prove his innocence, a heavy burtden to bear. Despite presenting affidavits from 7 out of 9 witnesses recanting or changing their statements, he was not granted a new trial and his conviction was upheld.

I can not say that I know without a doubt that Troy Davis was innocent or guilty.  But I can say that there was too much doubt to warrant lethal injection. America is called "the land of the free."  It has a "justice" system where each individual is "innocent" until "proven" guilty. Every man is given a "fair" trial. Tell me, do you believe this?  Unfortunately I can't say that I do. Sometimes other factors, race....age....gender....finances....education....resources...location, all play a part in someone receiving justice.  I've heard about the innocents imprisoned for crimes they didn't commit.  As a legal professional, I am aware of those unfortunate cases.  But for the first time in MY life, I watched as evidence for a new trial went ignored.  I watched as millions protesting were ignored....as opinions from respected legal scholars and experts were overlooked. And I couldn't help but wonder, why so much disregard for accuracy....for the truth?  Or is charging the RIGHT offender important anymore?  Or will anyone suffice?

What would make so many legal officials overlook standards and lack of evidence? What about the rules of professional responsibility they are governed by? Why didn't the truth matter? Why didn't millions of people protesting tug at their hearts....their conscience? Seems like all we've have is Jesus if the people we've trusted to serve and protect us are biased...making their own standards. Such blatant disregard for human life. I pray for America because we need it.

Troy Davis's execution showed us in bold print that our justice system is flawed.  It is disturbing that there's no uniformity or standards that must be followed when imposing the death penalty in the United States.  Nor any uniformity amongst Parole Boards.  Of course there are always rules and regulations in place, but are they being followed?  Who's regulating or making sure they're enforced? 

In May 22, 2008, Georgia's Board of Parole pardoned Samuel David Crowe who in March 1988, killed store manager Joseph Pala during a robbery at the lumber company in Douglas County, west of Atlanta. Crowe, who had previously worked at the store, shot Pala three times with a pistol, beat him with a crowbar and a pot of paint.  His death sentence was commuted to a life sentence without parole. It was stated that "David Crowe takes full responsibility for his crime and experiences profound remorse."  This same parole board denied Troy Davis's request, despite 7 of the 9 convicting witnesses recanting their statements. Would they have shown mercy and pardoned him if he admitted guilt and remorse for a crime that he proclaimed innocence against? 

We may never know.  I do know that I watched as millions protested and begged for a man's life to be spared. I watched as the masses, including some high esteemed individuals, were silenced by the few.  I watched as those few decided to continue with Troy Davis's death.  I watched with tears in my eyes as a possibly innocent man's life was taken in the midst of a hurricane of doubt.  I cried and my heart hurt like he was my brother. And I decided that I will no longer watch injustice.

I will no longer stand by and feel helpless and sorrowful for the indiscretions of America's "justice" system....for the indiscretions of America.  I will fight for the innocent.  I will fight against the death penalty.  I will fight for those who can't fight.  I will use my Juris Doctorate for more than just a dollar.  If I have to, I'll do it alone.  But I know I won't because you'll stand with me.  You saw what I saw.  You felt what I felt.  And you don't ever want to feel that way again. So educate yourselves. Be aware of your surroundings...your environment.  More importantly, VOTE!!!  At EVERY election, local, state and national.  Write your legislature, they work for you.  Your city council....your commissioners.....they work for YOU!!!  It's time we take a stand TOGETHER and make a change that's warranted. Let's stop being the victim. Take my hand and let's lead a purpose filled life.

Troy Davis, your life is not in vein.  You have fueled the fire in many. Thanks for the reality check. May you rest in peace.♥

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Maturity

This past year was like FIVE years packed into one. I lost both my grandparents within 3 months of eachother. That opened my eyes to alot of things. It helped me to put life into perspective. I evaluated...dissected...analyzed all of my actions and decisions of the past. As my Dad says, "If you die tomorrow, you've enjoyed your life. No one can say that you haven't lived." He's right. I sacrificed alot of things, including my career, in order to enjoy. Alot of things occurred, good and bad, as a result of my living life to the fullest.  Some I never understood.  But just recently I received clarity on the last five years of my life.  And I was overwhelmed with tears because I finally understood what I had struggled with not knowing for the past 5 years.  The weights were lifted...my burden became light.  And now I am ready to move on.

God has been dealing with me in all areas of my life.  Through our dealings, I've been restoring my relationship with Him.  And I've matured enough to finally submit to His will for my life.  Every morning I wake up with joy in my heart.  When trouble and situations arouse, I no longer stress over them like I used to because I know that everything happens according to God's will.  I have a newfound peace and I LOVE IT!!!

My vice was holding onto people who I should've let go.  But I realize that anyone who stands in between you and God, is not in His plan/will for your life.  So I've let them go.  I've also removed people who brought drama/stress/negativity/garbage to my life. You have to clean out garbage before it stinks.  Seems like the people who need to leave the most are the ones who refuse go. They stick around to know your business and contaminate your life when given the opportunity. In those instances, you have to exercise discipline and take the initiative. It's your life so be careful who you allow to sit front row.

I understand that I will meet people that I don't agree with, people that I don't like, that rub me the wrong way. But I will not allow those people to affect my emotions or influence my actions. I've been through the storm and come to realize that water is necessary for a flower to grow. I am ready and prepared to move on with my life. Closing this chapter and writing a new one.♥



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Is GOOD a dying breed?

There's a saying, "A man is only faithful as his options." And I'm slowly learning this to be true. Men hate when women say, "All men are dogs." Yet, alot of them behave that way. Drooling over any semi-attractive woman. Entertaining any attention a woman gives. Go ahead men, say that I'm hating or better yet, that I'm bitter. You guys LOVE to say that. I'm just calling it as I see it. It doesn't matter who you have in your bed or on your arm, some men just crave more. Not because the woman is lacking in any way, but because he can have more.

Now let me be clear, not all men are this way. There are some men who live for relationships and is happy with just one woman. I've dated him before. But I was in school and preoccupied with my studies so we separated. I often think about that decision.  Those type of guys are few and far between, so LADIES when you find the man that eats, sleeps, breathe you...HOLD ON TO HIM.

But I've notinced that times have changed. The media sells sex no matter what the product is: sneakers, chewing gum, tampons. Its all about sex. Morals have been depleted and have become diluted. Why do you say that, you may ask? Because leaking a sex tape, being in a video half naked or in a magazine with a thong on gets you instant celebrity status. It even gets you a reality show. Now a days, strippers are populars and porn stars are idolized. That's why I say that. And that's ridiculous and sets a poor example for young ladies. Some are no longer aspiring to go to college and get an education. Instead, they are plotting on how to become the next basketball wife or video vixen. I can't help but wonder where have our morals gone? Are we not teaching our children to love themselves, to be self sufficient, to not follow the crowd?

In today's society, if you're not doing oral sex you're an outcast. People are criticized for being inexperienced sexually. When looking for a mate, people are no longer looking for morals and values. They are concerned with your tricks and tactics in the bedroom. I understand sexual compatibility is big for alot of people. And that's understandable, but what happens when you leave the bedroom? Are you compatible in life? Do you share the same goals?  Do you have the characteristics and qualities to bring out the best in eachother?  Do you share the same interests? Religious beliefs? Matter of fact, do you even believe anything religiously?

Our world is in microwave mode. We no longer take time to cook things and watch them develop to perfection. We want to stick it in the oven and it come out perfectly done and exactly to our liking. We're backwards now. Instead of becoming friends and getting to know eachother prior to sex, people have sex and get to know the person and become friends after the fact.  Hoping that the sexual act will bring them closer. It does, emotionally for the woman. Not so sure how the man is affected.

But I do know guys that dismiss a woman because she makes it clear that she doesn't sleep around and will not sleep with him without commitment. To that woman, KUDOS to you!!! Never compromise yourself and your standards. If a man isn't willing to put in the time and effort to get to know you as a person, then he definitely is not worthy of getting to know you intimately. Continue to love and value yourself regardless of what this world does. Be ye not conformed to this world.(Romans 12:2)

I wrote this post because standards are dying. People are being criticized for not following the crowd, for not doing what is expected. I believe in waiting for a meaningful relationship before having sex. I also believe in taking my time to REALLY get to know a person before getting into a relationship. So yes, I have seen many men come and go. And the ones that went, should have. I wish that some of the ones that stayed would have went also.  I am often criticized for my standards and my religious beliefs. I am not ashamed of them nor do I apologize for them. They make me who I am. I'm different and I LOVE IT!!! However, I do wonder if I will ever meet someone worthy of me. Some one deserving of someone who has done their best to respect themself and preserve their purity.

I understand men are expected to have sown their oats and there's a double standard but I don't want a man who has slept with lots of loose women. Someone who wasn't selective or discriminating in his dealings.  I want someone who thinks highly of himself and feels that ANY woman can't have him, regardless of how beautiful she is. Because I feel that any man can't have me, regardless of how charming, handsome or rich he is. I'm not for sale...I'm for love.

Now are there any GOOD people out there??
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A Woman's World

For centuries to come, men never understood women.  And even today, they struggle to understand what it is a woman wants....how a woman feels. They watch Oprah, talk to female friends, talk to their female family members, in hopes of learning what exactly a woman wants. What did she mean when she said, don't worry about it? Is she really okay with me not being ready to commit or is she just dealing with it until better comes along? Some of the answers can be found in her body language....in her actions after the fact.  Or maybe you should listen to her conversation. When you say certain things, the way she reacts.

Then there's the scary truth, that you may never know how she REALLY feels. Sometimes what a woman wants may vary from day to day. It also changes based on the end result. However, there are women who know exactly what they want because they've experienced enough bad to appreciate the good. But more often than not, alot of women are living life trial by error. Now men, don't start making comments because you are guilty of this too. Let's just discuss some scenarios that you've been through.

SCENARIO 1:  A woman meets a man and they began dating. They go out for a couple of dates and she sleeps with him. They continue to sleep together and the woman discusses a relationship. The man informs her that he isn't ready for a relationship but would like to continue seeing her. She continues to see him and sleep with him and commitment never comes. The woman gives him an ultimatem and eventually the interaction ends.

MALE POINT OF VIEW: I don't understand why she's mad, I told her that I wasn't ready for a relationship but would like to continue to sleep with...I mean...see her.

FEMALE POINT OF VIEW: He led me on, saying he wanted to see me like eventually we could progress into more.

LESSON: Ladies when a man says, I don't want a relationship, BELIEVE him. Even if his actions say otherwise. If you know you are looking for a relationship, build a friendship FIRST!!! Get to know the person WITHOUT sex, so you're judgment won't be clouded. During the friendship stage, they'll let you know if they're looking for something long term.

SCENARIO 2: Woman meets man and within the first few days she sleeps with them. This lead to numerous encounters of hot steamy sex. Eventually the sexual escapade ends when he says a comment that makes her feel disrespected. And after addressing it, he doesn't apologize. Instead he makes another rude comment.

LESSON: Get to know people before you sleep with them. I'm sure he was rude and disrespectful prior to the sex. That would've been discovered if they had spent some time to get to know eachother first. You'd be surprised what spending a little time would do. Lol

Ladies, let's address us. Some of us are double minded at times.  You tell your friends that you slept with him quickly because you "wanted some", so why get mad when it doesn't progress to a relationship? If you did it to appease a physical need then don't be upset when the emotional desires don't add up. Save yourself the unnecessary stress of disappointment. You got what you initially bargained for. Just make a better plan of attack for the next encounter.

The main problem with women is that we allow the emotional scars and baggage to linger long after the imposter has departed. You have to learn to have short term memory as to the pain. Remember the lesson but forget the negative. Never give anyone the power to hinder your ability to love. Always maintain control of your power over you!!!

When living the single life, the first thing you should do is determine what it is that you want out of your interactions with suitors. Is it a relationship...a friendship....cut buddy?  Determine that before you entertain anyone. By determining this, you decrease the probability of getting hurt or the short end of the stick.  Also, be up front in your discussions.  Let the other person know what you're looking for. Most men like to take it day to day or "go with the flow" and that's fine.  But if you want a relationship then you may want to keep your legs closed until you're CLEAR on exactly where the "flow" is going to take you. Now I'm not saying that not sleeping with a man automatically guarantees a relationship. But I am saying that, emotional ties comes with sex and if you don't know what the situation is or if he wants what you want, it's best to hold off.

MEN: If you don't want drama, it's best to be up front and clear about what you want. I know this next thing is hard for y'all but if you know she wants a relationship. AND you know you don't plan on being in one with her, DO NOT SLEEP WITH HER. This will almost always guarantee drama. Her feelings will be involved and she's gonna react emotionally. And someone may get hurt. Now if you let her know up front what your expectations were, then her decisions were no fault of yours. BUT if you are aware of her feelings and know that she's sleeping with you hoping that you'll commit, SAVE YOURSELF THE DRAMA.

And as far as what a woman wants....thinks...how she feels. If you spend time with her....talk to her.....listen to her......watch her actions....reactions....you'll know her. Yes we are emotional at times....irrational at times....but we have patterns and there is some method to the madness. You've just got to care enough in order to try to understand.

Welcome to a Women's World. We love you here ♥
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STAND

It's crazy how you can work your whole life for something and people think they can come and take it from you.  You WORK to live in a nice house....to drive a luxury car.....to wear REAL diamonds...to enjoy your life.  Then some lazy, poor excuse of a human being comes along and robs you, to take what YOU have labored for because they refuse to work.  People blame it on the recession...on hard times. We all are living in these days of high gas prices...inflated store prices....high unemployment rates.  Life is difficult for ALL of us but it doesn't entitle people to commit crimes....to rob....to steal...to write bad checks.  You've just got to hustle harder...be more determined....and think out side of the box. This is life and it's never been easy, so why are you expecting a break now?

I never understood some people views on crime and me wanting to be a defense attorney. But after talking to victims and being a victim, now I totally understand.  Being a victim of a crime or watching someone close to you be victimized, really changes your life. At first they're defenseless, because they've been taken advantage of.  Then they either want to fight back or lay down.  God forbid they lay down because then the assailant has gotten a free pass to strike again. If you don't stand up against who wronged you, you leave opportunity for them to do the same thing to someone else.  Many don't stand....I saw it today.  And it bothers me....it infuriates me because why wouldn't you fight for your livelihood? Why wouldn't you stand for justice...for those who were wronged before you?  Why are you allowing fear to control your life? For once, please stand for right!!! Please fight for yourself....for your family!!!! If you don't stop it, it'll NEVER end. Why wait on a hope and a prayer when it lies in your hands?♥

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Love Yourself

Hey Everyone!!! I know it's been a minute since I've posted. I'm extremely busy working on new projects and developing ideas.  I have alot of big things in the works for me!!!! I'm SO excited.  I've been reflecting on some of my old posts and it's funny because the majority of my posts deal with love, relationships and family.  Those are the things that consume my life the most. I get alot of couples seeking relationship advice. And oddly enough, I enjoy talking to them and encouraging them. I am definitely a hopeful romantic.

But today, I'm gonna take a slight detour and talk to you about strapping up. Many parents do not talk to their kids about sex and using a condom because they feel like it's condoning sex. But it's really not, it's educating your child so that no one else has to. When most kids think of a condom, the first thing that comes to their mind is protection against pregnancy. So if the girl is on birth control, they no longer feel the need for a condom.  They're not concerned with STDs such as herpes and AIDS. Why? Because teenage pregnancy is emphasized way more than AIDS. Teenagers see a child as a nightmare because it is something everyone will see. Whereas, AIDS is something that no one has to know you have.  I don't think they believe that they'll contract an STD. 

As the parent, it is your duty to be upfront and honest with your kids. Let them know that AIDS is real and people DIE from it.  I had a best friend and an uncle die from AIDS. I've seen it first hand. I know it's effects.  It is REAL!!! I know that sex is a pleasureable experience and that sometimes you feel that you can trust a person because you're in love.  But truth is, you can only trust yourself so STRAP up. They've made condoms that feel like you're not using any protection at all, so that's no longer an excuse.  And if you can't afford a condom, the local clinics give them away for free.

Please put yourself first. Think about your life, your future and the things you hope to do in your lifetime. Don't cut that short by being careless and unsafe with your body. Just ask yourself, is sex so great that it's worth dying over? I didn't think so. PROTECT YOURSELF because NO ONE'S gonna love you like you!♥

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RUDE AWAKENING

Yeah I took a blow to the head with my Grandma AND Grandda dying. I cry many nights because life will never be the same. I know they're watching over me but it hurts like hell. It's great that I have two angels now but I never imagined life like this...without them. In a sense I thought they would be here forever. Never thought about life without them.


I lost two people that meant the world to me within 4 months of eachother. That changed my life. I got to REALLY see people for who they are. Behind the fake smiles and kind words, I saw the real and the ugly.  It was disheartening, disappointing, and anger provoking all at once.  Can't say I was shocked because you can't put anything past people but it was surprising.  I value love so much that I assumed that others did too. Apparently not, alot of people are selfish.

So now I'm focusing on Merchon...putting Merchon first. I just want to live my life, prosper in my career and meet someone who genuinely loves me and makes me happy. Life is too short to spend it with people who stress you out and make you unhappy. So be careful and very cautious who you let into your life because your interactions may lead to love. You don't choose love but you can choose who you put into your life to have the possibility of being the one you fall in love with.

You hear me? I'm serious. I've been putting my life into perspective because two of the loves of my life are gone. And they shared a REAL love.  I want that.  I want a REAL love. A love that withstands the test of time. A love that makes me smile when my heart cries. A love that's sweet when the world around me is sour.  A love that understands me when no one else does.  A love that never ceases to amaze me over the years. I know it's possible because I've seen it firsthand. I want to travel the world with him and experience new things together....go to different events....do wild and crazy things....act like children, all giddy and silly...just enjoy eachother...no arguments, just communication...No insults, just appreciation....no debates, just point of views....Just US, Not "me and you." Loving him for life and then some. That's what I'm praying for.
This blog is out of nowhere, I know. I'm just sharing where I'm at. We deserve people that make us happy. I made up in my mind that if he doesn't make me smile and I don't have fun with him, I can't marry him. I'm not gonna spend my life arguing or fighting. I want to travel, try new things and enjoy eachother. That's what I want and I'm gonna get it :) The Lord says, "If we delight ourselves in Him, He'll give us the desires of our heart." And I'm holding Him to it!♥
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Simply Complicated II

I've learnt that I really didn't know me like I thought I did. I underestimated myself and my capabilities. I realized that even though I address the world with caution and attempt to have my guard up, my heart still cares.  Who would've thought that I could be as selfless as I've been, helping people who have no idea who I am; shedding tears for those that I don't even know but I cry because I feel their pain.

Who would've thought that I was strong enough to totally overcome what I've experienced and let go of the past. Never imagined that my love was as endless and unconditional as it has proven to be. Still don't understand how I could continue to love people that validated they didn't love me. I guess my love goes deeper than the animosity and the jealousy they harbor because I still care about their well being.  Every one sees me as this pillar of strength because I stand firmly for what I believe and I have no problem going against the grain. Yes, I am strong. But what they don't know is that I love hard and I am so passionate about my life.....my beliefs....the people.  I'm just a passionate person.  I try not to care because truth is, I care too much.  It's a blessing and a curse; with me you get all or nothing. If I can't be a good friend, lover, colleague...person...whatever, to you, then I'm not taking that position at all.  If I can't do you right then I prefer not to do you any.  I find myself overindulged because I volunteer to help people when I should really just let things play out.  But my heart and the humanitarian in me won't let me look on.  I've always been told to put me first but that's so hard to do. So what do I do? I know I should put me first and I try, but if I'm the only one happy then I'm not truly happy. That's why I please others because if I make them smile, so can I.  I see one thing remained the same, I'm just simply complicated.♥


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Recap

‎2010 was such an overwhelming year. It seemed like it was four years compressed into one. I grew so much spiritually and internally. Realized what I wanted in love and life, things I thought I already knew. Met some great people. Lost a good friend from college whom I had just reconnected with to murder. Had my heart ripped out with the loss of my irreplacable Queen which I have yet to recover from. Such a reality check on life, people and love. Focused on my purpose, planned and set out to fulfill it. So as my Grandma says, here I am at the end of myself. I don't need for 2011 to come to be a different person, I change daily. I just need to allow Jesus to be present more in my life...LESS of me and MORE of Him.♥




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At the blink of an eye

Just four days ago I was recapping my year and ecstatic about the future. Not saying that that has changed, but things have changed.  Yes, just THAT quickly. On January 3, 2011, my Grandfather died. I remember being in bed on the computer and my Dad came into the room ans said, "Your mama called.  They say your Granddaddy having trouble breathing.  She say we better come over." I calmly got dressed. No rush. The ride over was quiet as I thought and analyzed.  We passed the fire truck, but I still wasn't clued in.  When I saw all the cars at the yard, my heart started to beat fast. But it wasn't until I walked into the house and everybody sat red eyed that it hit me, my Granddaddy was gone. The man they gave up in 1999. The man who suffered over 7 strokes.  The same man who had a brain aneurism 7 years ago and stayed in a coma for 10 days then came out WITHOUT surgery.  This man was gone. The fighter had surrendered. He had fought his last fight. Taken his last breath. Cried his last tear. No more sleepless nights...no more gagging....no more putting up with all the foolishness of this world.

He is reunited with his Queen. I am happy for him but I hurt like hell. To endure this all over again makes it hard to do anything but cry. And I here I am thinking why me??? Not again...I always knew he would go one day but he fought so hard and defied EVERY medical diagnosis that I just KNEW that he would be around for a while, no matter what they said.  I never ever imagined losing one but to lose BOTH of them in a matter of 3 months and 22 days is like someone ripped my heart out, stomped on it and laughed in my face as I cried in pain.

I have so much anger....hurt....and resentment. But I smile in spite of the pain and talk about other things because there's so much fury within me. I'm praying like never before because I'm not the woman I used to be.  My innocence snatched away and reality sets in, such a disheartening experience.  These last few months revealed alot about people. People are selfish and all about a dollar. They'll forsake love for money and loyalty is becoming extinct.

My Grandda taught me to love whole heartedly, give unselfishly and live freely, despite what others may think.  He did what he felt was right regardless what people said.  And if you didn't like it then that was your problem because the only person he had to answer to was God. He taught us that, "God will pay every man according to his works." And the way he lived his life showed that he strongly believed that. Grandda was a work horse.  He worked 12 to 18 hour days and STILL ran a prosperous church.  I don't know anyone that works harder than him.  I was blessed to have him in my life.  Even though, I STAYED in trouble with him.  Always threatening to get "Mr. DO RIGHT," which was what he named his belt.  But he knew I was no stranger to whipping.  Matter of fact, that was my middle name Merchon "Whipping" Green. Lol Wow, that made me laugh.

The past couple of years, everytime I came home, he'd say, "Merchon, where ya man at?" And I'd say, "I'm working on it Grandda." And he'd say, "You know um gone marry you don't you. Uma do your wedding." And I'd say, "Yes sir." Then he'd say, "Well you better hurry up before there's nobody left to marry." And I'd just laugh. And say, "Ahh Grandda, u wrong." Then we'd laugh together.  Other days, I'd come into the house and beat him to the punch, "Grandda, I need you to pray with me." He'd say, "Ok, what we praying about?" And I'd reply, "I'm trying to get this man. Pray that I get this man Grandda." And we'd laugh. And I'd tell him all about him.

He had such a sense of humor and FULL of jokes. Always had his clever riddles and sayings to make you laugh. He said, "Uma bad man. I'll handcuff lightning and hold back thunder.  Put everybody in the graveyard on a wonder. Baddest man from the West Coast." Lol, He was in deed a bad man. Standing only 5'6 but tough as nails, never backing down to anyone or about anything.  I could always count on Grandda to threaten to beat me or make me laugh, just depended on the day. What a couple they were. I had never seen them argue, except after our choir had sung on program on Saturday night and we were trying to talk Grandda out of Sunday morning service. I was always the guinnea pig.  After reminding him of how we turn the church out and that we were traveling back late.  Sometimes he'd give in and say no church in the morning. And Grandma would give him the devil, "Rev you can't let those kids stop you from having church." Lol

Grandda was cooler than a fan. But he ate anything. Old back woods Gawga boy! Eating fried hog brains....now THAT was NOT cool.  I'll always carry you in my heart, everything that you instilled in me; the love you embedded. The legacy you created will live on through us. It's all we know.  R.I.P Grandda, love you!♥



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