WOMEN ain't sh*t.....WAIT...MEN ain't either!

If you ask men what is the topic they hate hearing women talk about the most.  They'd say they hate all of the male bashing.  And I must agree, there are ALOT of women that male bash.  It is done so often that at times, I'm sucked into the party. Hahaha.  But let's be honest, MEN DO IT TOO!!!  Women say, "All men are dogs. Or men ain't sh*t."  Men say, "Women ain't sh*t. They are just as grimey as men."  Now I'm not saying that this statement doesn't fit SOME women because it does.  There are some women out there that have a "love em and leave em" attitude.  They're gonna get you before they get got.  THOSE women do not speak for the majority nor should you judge the majority by them. But men do it anyway. 

Men hold women to a higher standard and stereotype ALL the women by the women THEY deal with.  If they were more selective in choosing who they have relations and relationships WITH they'll realize that GOOD women do exist. She's the one you pushed to the side because she wanted you to take her out and get to know her before she slept with you. She's the one that you said was too demanding because she had standards and expected more out of you. She's the one who you cheated on or left because she wouldn't be your puppet. So in essence, the women YOU choose ain't sh*t. And you attract what YOU are. So it's time to do a self-evaluation :)  

For all the "Men ain't sh*t" ladies, this also applies to you.  Yes, there are some men out there that are SO trifling that they'll make you hate EVERY man because of his gender.  But it's not fair to let his wrath fall upon all men.  In the midst of your bitterness marinate on this: The GOOD man was the one who you pushed to the side because he was "too into you".  He's the one who you said you couldn't be with because he was too nice.  Or what about the one you cheated on because he said he didn't want you for just sex?  He wanted to get to know you first. And you remember the man who was too direct, right? Yeah, he was a good one too; but you're accustomed to guys stringing you along rather than being up front with you.  So in reality, the men YOU choose ain't sh*t because you are NOT looking for a GOOD man.  You're getting right what you want because if you wanted better, you'd get better.

So for once in our lives, let's be real.  When we've made a conscious decision to want better for ourselves and expect more out of life, we'll get exactly that.  But as long as, we're accepting the okie doke and entertaining the foolishness, there's no need to complain.  Why?  Because we're getting exactly what we like.  We enjoy the drama....the spontaneity of the inconsistent woman/man....the adrenaline rush of the chase...the not knowing.  It keeps us interested.  A good woman/man's consistency and loyalty is boring to us, which is why we overlook them.  But trust, when life takes it's toll and the heart is shattered beyond what WE feel can be repaired and the superficiality fades, we'll welcome him/her with OPEN arms.  Then, we'll be glad to have someone in our life that's sincere and loyal to us. Now understand that just because you've reached your breaking point doesn't mean he/she is going to drop right in your lap.  Anything worth having is worth working for and waiting for.  So be patient and work on being a GOOD man/woman while your waiting!♥

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